Giving correct scholarly opinions to both Muslims and non-Muslims: Does Islam establish gender roles for women? Part 1

Thursday, August 16, 2012

Does Islam establish gender roles for women? Part 1

I will give four fatwas on this, showing how it is not a woman's duty to be a housewife or stay at home. This is for the husband and wife to discuss and decide. It's quite saddening how many Muslims say a woman's place is to be at home.

Starting with the first fatwa:

Question

Salaam, Ok so I listened to Amir Liyakat Hussein say its not a woman's duty to cook for her husband as the Prophet (pbuh) frequently cooked for his wives. And let it be known I agree with this. Anyways can you give some clarification?

Answer

I am not currently aware of a Hadith where it is mentioned that the Holy Prophet Sallallahu Alaihe Wa Sallam cooked for his family but it is certainly true that the Holy Prophet Sallallahu Alaihe Wa Sallam always helped his family in the household work.

It is not the wife's duty by Islamic law to cook for the family but with mutual understanding the husband and wife work together the make the family a happy and successful family by sharing the responsibilites and by dividing the jobs also.

And Allah knows best.

Fatwa Center of America

10 Jumada-al Ukhra 1432/ May 14 2011

http://askamufti.com/Answers/ViewQuestion.aspx?QuestionId=1631&CategoryId=35&CategoryName=Women

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A fatwa is an opinion or ruling by one who is knowledgeable about Islamic ethics. Usually these people are Imam's, Mufti's, or anyone who has done deep studies of Islam.

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The Prophet Muhammed (peace be upin him) said:

“Scholars are the inheritors of the prophets.”

A Quran verse is said to coincide with this hadith:

“Then We gave the Scripture as inheritance unto those whom We elected of Our servants.” [Qur'an, 35.32]

Another hadith states:

”The superiority of a scholar (alim) over the devout (abid) is like my superiority over a worshipper or like that of the moon in the night when it is full over the rest of the stars, and truly the scholars arc the heirs of the Prophets, and truly the Prophets do not leave behind them gold or silver, they only leave knowledge as their heritage. So whosoever acquires knowledge acquires a huge fortune.” (Transmitted by Ahmad, Abu Dawud and al Tirmidhi and Ibn Majah.)

We pick and choose the most relevant opinions on major issues that many Muslims have either doubts or questions on.

The thing is there's many sites that give fatwas, but many of them are too extreme, flat out stupid or just wrong, all of whom contradict Islamic teachings. It's gets real tiring hearing about what some ulema (body of scholars) say about women, non-Muslims, and harmless customs. They judge, accuse and somtimes even degrade others. These people are suppose to guide us and help us, yet they're doing the opposite. Islam tells us only God and his Prophet (peace be upon him) can declrare what is haraam (forbidden), however these 'scholars' will find out ways to try and make whatever they want as haraam.
These are also feeders to anti-Islamic material. It makes us look even more worse than we're portrayed.

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http://www.askthescholar.com/ (run by Sheikh Ahmed Kutty, labeled as one of the top 100 Muslims worldwide).
http://www.onislam.net/ (formerly IslamOnline, one of the most visited Islamic websites in the world).
http://www.muslimvillage.com/
http://www.askamufti.com/
http://en.islamtoday.net/
http://www.canadiancouncilofimams.com/
http://fiqhcouncil.org/
http://www.ali-gomaa.com/ (Grand Mufti of Egypt)
http://www.dar-alifta.org/ (headed by the Grand Mufti of Egypt, advises the Egyptian government on matters)

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